Its not sarcasm. I’m being brutally honest. Forget about what women say. Only focus on what “they do,” and work your magick based on that knowledge. The idea I proposed is the most elementary understanding of things, where you use that knowledge to “demonstrate your value” and then use that with magick to improve yourself, so being wealthier in materialism isn’t the only type of value you should be demonstrating.
I noticed your title is “Dave the Barbarian.” You can take certain masculine characteristics they are attracted to and then find out clever and acceptable ways to approach them to conversate to “demonstrate masculine value” based on how modern women respond in relation to “what they do” vs “what they say.”