Hey everyone, i was wondering if i could get your input on how to handle this difficult situation using magick.
So five years ago, my mother was doing great had a good job and home, happy and for the most part healthy when she met her now boyfriend on an online dating site. at this point in time my mom had been sober from drinking for a few years but he is 16 years younger than her and was still in the “party” scene and liked to drink, he knew she was sober and at first he said he wouldn’t drink around her but then sure enough he started to and she made it seem like she was okay with it and could “handle it” but after awhile he started to nag her to start drinking with him and she thought that just a beer or two would be fine, but then before you know it she’s drinking all the time with him, she goes back to her old ways of staying up all night getting drunk with him and of course he started to show that he had serious angry issues most of all when he was drinking…
So this went on for a few months and at this point she was still working and he had moved in with her with no job or anything. then he started doing meth and getting her to use it too. at this point everything went to complete shit and she lost her job, house and pretty much everything. they became homeless and were always breaking up and getting back together. Eventually they decided to move out of state where they were still homeless and he was still putting her in the hospital multiple different times. they were both in and out of jail for drugs etc. she was now a full blown alcoholic and drug addict. she kept telling me over the phone about how she wanted to move back to our home state where her family was and get clean and get back on her feet and how she wanted to leave her boyfriend.
Anyways, long story short, a few weeks later she actually manages to leave him and come back into town, swearing that she’s clean and going to get back on her feet. She had nowhere to go but luckily she was able to stay with my sister for the time being. Unfortunately, she was not clean and just got discovered stealing alcohol from my sister, and is probably going to get kicked out onto the streets.
I just don’t have any idea what to do… i know my mom is very depressed and has really bad anxiety right now, she has fresh scars all up and down her arms. i’m worried that if she ends up on the streets again she will try and commit suicide because she feels like there is no hope for her… i know that everything that has gotten her to this point is because of her own choices but i still want to help her any way I can to start coming out of the hole she dug for herself.
What would you recommend magick-wise as a starting point for this? What spirits or entities would be good to work with for getting someone out of addiction and homelessness? Or would some kind of spell be better? My significant other @Nyxifer has already done a ritual to help bind her boyfriend from causing anymore trouble… I just need to focus on improving my mom’s life. Any thoughts? I’m also a beginner in magick so I don’t know too much but I am willing to do anything to help her.